Love what you Hate

'Learn to love the crap in your life'. Sounds strange I know, but it is a gift once mastered. What this means to me is to appreciate everything in our life, the good and the bad. If you waiting around for all the crap in your life to suddenly disappear to be happy then you will NEVER be truly happy. I can’t stress this enough that you need to learn to be happy with all your problems in your life right now before you can experience happiness. The fact is everybody has some kind of problem it’s just that some look at their problems in a different view so they don’t really see them as problems at all.


The trick is when ever you have any kind of negative thought, or your wishing for something to be a different way, or you don’t want a certain situation in your life, anything at all that you dont like the look or thought of in your life you need to relink that negative energy or thought to a positive energy and/or thought. It a tough one I know. I know from experience. But it is possible.

Basically from any negative experience there is a positive side to the story, a lesson to be learned or knowledge to be gained.

Let’s look at some daily examples.

You’re complaining about the children misbehaving, arguing back, and making a mess. Now remind yourself how lucky you are to this child, there are thousands out there that would do anything to have children and some may have just lost a child moments ago.

Right now in my life when I’m having a challenging time to get my 7 month old baby boy off to sleep and I start to feel myself getting frustrated. This is when I remind myself that even I have friends that would do anything to have a crying baby in there arms. I am blessed to have this child. Just the thought of how lucky I am to have this crying baby is instantly calming.

The acts of appreciation in all areas of your life are truly simple to use once you are aware.

Instead of feeling sad when your partner is away for business or work purposes remind you yourself how lucky you are that you have a husband, wife or partner coming home to you. How many people sit at home with nobody to look forward to come home to?

Learn to truly appreciate your partner, children, family, friends, your health, and your finances. Search for the positive in any negative experience.

For more in-depth information check out one of my favourite books by Kurek Ashey called How would Love Respond. This is a magnificant and touching piece of art. Click the picture below to view his book.




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